Friday, August 15, 2008

Drama: It's like a Zombie. It never really dies.

A while back I talked about drama. Well, drama has reared it's ugly head again. Only this time it's hands down worse and doesn't involve teenagers as much as adults.

I am struggling with not being able to please everyone.

I know I will never be able to please everyone because in order to do that everyone would have to want the same things. We as humans are not that way.

I am struggling with being blamed for something I did not choose and fielding all the questions and rants.

I take things personally so even though someone may not be upset with me but they yell to me about it I feel like they blame me or I've done something wrong.

I am struggling with feeling like the true intent behind the decision, not made by me, was to be hurtful and show favoritism when I really really want to believe it was made for good reasons.

So if anyone has any encouraging words of wisdom or prayers they like to offer up on my behalf that would be great.

3 comments:

Cheri said...

I wish I had some brilliant advice that would make it all better, but if it involves what I think it involves, it will never go away. That was the main reason I quit cheering after JV. Too much drama. Unfortunately, for those of us who do tend to take it personally, we just have to learn how to suck it up and deal with it (which I still haven't figured out how to do) or we choose to walk away (I'm really good at that part). I sincerely hope you can find a way to keep doing something I know you love while dealing with the not so enjoyable aspects of it.

Beth said...

Sorry about your drama. I don't think anything ever compares to drama in highschool. Have a great weekend!!

drbaucom said...

Uh oh... I can almost guess exactly what you're talking about because I REMEMBER THE DRAMA!!!

Hang in there, dear!